Here's a question for all of you no matter what your situation is. Being in DADT, I've always had the desire for it to go away
and my Wife to be fully involved. But, I've come to the conclusion that I prefer to have complete control of the experience.
It might be the desire to dress extreme from time to time so I get the impression that her influence would be more toward
the relative blandness of everyday passing. That's just sort of my take on my situation.
So, how do you feel about someone else's participation in your situation?