Vicious circle?

[cindycd]

Hands down one of my favorite thing's to do in this world is to wear some of my lingerire. I can't explain how wonderful it is to get out of the daily drab situation of day to day life with out any release. Being a crossdresser is probably the only thing that keeps my sanity in tacked.

[Joy Carter]

In general I agree to the circle, but IMO in the beginning it's the crossdressing itself which makes a young boy lonely, because he doesn't know where he belongs to and has nobody to talk about.

It is socialy debilatating I had trouble relating to others when was young Cding made me feel better but only for a short time. Since being an adult I can cope better but it has not been easy because I have never known another like me. But being here has helped me further accept my self.

[Raychel]

I also agree 100%, that is exactly how my younger years in crossdressing went. Now I enjoy it for other reasons. Mostly I just enjoy the feeling of the clothes, and the fact that when i am dressed it totally takes my mind off of the rest of my world. Which sometimes can be VERY stressful.

1. A person is lonely and isolated.
2. They crossdress to feel better.
3. Secrecy, guilt and shame causes further isolation.
4. More crossdressing, etc.
5. Forget the guilt and shame.
6. More crossdressing.
7. Relax and Enjoy life.

[Cathy Anderson]

5. Forget the guilt and shame.
6. More crossdressing.
7. Relax and Enjoy life.

No pain, no gain.