Hi all,
Had a frank conversation with my wife tonight about how I was projecting my feelings and it turns out (to my own admission) that it was confusing.
I've tried to be patient and do things the right way. However in doing so I have confused things further by trying to protect her feelings in how I explain myself.
It's hard but I realized that by trying to be careful on how I talk about things I'm actually making things more difficult for her to interpret moods etc.
Jeez this is a minefield but what I've learnt is what I think is the right thing can easily be seen as the wrong.
God this ain't easy, but stick with it.
A women's love is what it is. A wonder. I need to channel my feelings better