My wife has also known about my dressing before we we married. We have been married for almost 39 years and we have shopped together for clothes all those years and she knows what I have as she has picked out a lot of it. I have told her, if I go before she does sell my slip and nightgown collection on Ebay. Don't haul it to the thrift store. It will get a quite a bit when sold. I don't care what happens to the rest. I would imagine she would keep part of it for herself and donate the rest. It will take her more than a few trips to donate it all. Maybe she can take it to a consignment store and sell a lot of it. We have no children so that won't be a problem. If she asks her sister to help with it, I can just imagine what she will say.