Hello to all, I hope you are doing well.
It's been a while since I have been on here, and it looks like I have a lot of catching up to do! But, I wanted to drop in and say hello (Hello!) and ask you all a question, of sorts.
Again, I am the SO (GG) to Monnica, my lovely CD'er. Everything there is going wonderfully. <3 We have had more time for her to dress, completely and partially, and I enjoy it very much. I like to get involved, offer advice, buy her things, paint her nails...ect. One day, what I hope to just refer to as "the usual" (as I wish it was this way for everyone of you, not just a select few.).
Anyway, she has opened up to me about a lot of personal fantasies and desires, none yet seem too far fetched, or impossible. Not what I am used to, but I like to please and be pleased, as I say, I love her and will do what I can to help her fulfill as many as possible. But, something came up in conversation that I don't know how to answer; What do I want out of all this? I do mean specifically the dressing and all things related. I honestly never thought about it, and now I have to. I should. She asked and I would like to be able to answer, but this seems so much about Monnica, I never really thought of it that way and considered what I would like to accomplish or experience with her. I look online into these things, but want to make sure it's all right for me, not just a contrived idea I *think* M would like.
Has anyone else put this question to their SO? I was actually so moved when M asked me, because it shows me that M is not a selfish, narcissistic person (not completely - lol), and she genuinely cares about what me and what I want and how I feel about it all.
Anyway, that's it for now. I have quite a bit of reading to do... See you around the boards.
Thank you in advance for any insite, it's always appreciated.
-g