A lot of people, mainly relatives and co-workers.
A lot of people, mainly relatives and co-workers.
Thank you Leslie, you're right about Marlene, she definitely is the best. I did mean to have her on my list but somehow neglected to type her in.Originally Posted by Leslie Langford
Don't forget our mutual friend Marlene, formerly owner of Destiny Wigs and Accessories, Karen. She's the best!
Karen
My very patient wife, a lovely group of Tgirl friends, a couple delightful gg women who provide makeover services and a few gentlemen admirers.
Sarah Adams, mature girl from NH. My photos are on Flickr under vintage4sarah !
Only my wife and my credit card company.
Two of my former lovers, a man and a woman.
Pretty much everyone knows: Friends, family, co-workers, etc.
My best friend Alina ...
My reply is almost the same as Michelle’s. I had a very nice SA at a Dress Barn help me select a dress and I tried it on in the store. So, (duh)I know she knows I am a cross dresser. However, I used a pseudonym and paid in cash. I am also quite sure that other SAs in other stores have guessed that I might be a cross dresser when I purchased a size 42 bra or slip and size 7 panties or queeen tall pantyhose. But other than that, the only people who know that I am a cross dresser are my friends here online.
This is an interesting question because there are gray areas. Although there are lots of folks who know both Michelle and Fred I would say I'm "out" only to those who have my boy contact information. I have dear friends from this site and from a variety of service providers who have seen me as boy and girl and know a lot about my Fred life. I'm just more comfortable in general keeping Fred particulars to myself.
Using that definition:
o I am not "out" to a friend on this web site who has my cell phone number and has been to my house to deconstruct before heading home. She has never seen Fred.
o I am not "out" to the peeps I spent a week in Las Vegas in February even though they all saw plenty of Fred (we shared hotel rooms).
o I am out to my wife, the stylists at my hair salon, and two ladies on this web site who are friends on Fred's Facebook page. That's it.
Hugs, Michelle
Hi Diane, Only my
Wife and a couple thousand
friends on this wonderful forum.>Orchid......
Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~...
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
My Wife who cant stand,Her best friend who helped me dress once with my wives help but she just died from breast cancer.and my best friend named Kelly but she moved to Arkansas .all my used to be friends all male a long time ago when my ex wife told all of them.
My wife and the nice lady who sold me a wig last week.
Hi Iris....A couple of girls on here have the opinion that if you tell the girl or guy who cuts your hair that you are a cross dresser and show them some really cute, sexy, yet classy photos on your IPad of you getting your girl on that the entire rest of the universe knows you're a cross dresser.
Not true in my case. Kelly has been cutting my hair for over 15 years and she keeps everything someone tells here extremely private. She never talks about other people to her customers and the girls cutting hair in the same shop still have no idea there's a Scarlett in me....
wife
parents
brothers and sister in laws
nephews
nieces
two non TG friends
five TG friends
several SAs in my favourite stores
many strangers who have clocked me
My late wife knew, now the list is longer.
All four of my adult children, their spouses and probably some of the their children
My sister-in-law, her two adult kids, their spouses and one of her grandkids
The grandson of my brother-in-law. The BIL is transphobic, but the kid seems cool with it.
The folks who work at any of the three outlets of my wig store
Everyone in my Support group
several other local TS and TG friends and their spouses/partners
Anyone who goes to Diva Las Vegas
Who doesn't know may be a more critical question, but the only way to verify is to move them to this list. It's a quandary, isn't it?
Sarah
Being transgender isn't a lifestyle choice. How you deal with it is.
Just my wife
My wife, our cats, and two sisters from this site.
None still in contact with regularly. In fact, the few friends that I had that knew, I no longer see as they all got married and moved away (all female, and a stray single man staying in contact with married women usually isn't welcomed by the hubby). As of now, the only person still around that's aware, my older sister knows, and we've never been close; I only told her 20 years ago when I was getting divorced, because I wanted her to find out from me, not my evil (now EX) wife. She never brings it up, probably doesn't think about it, but remembering how horrified she was when I told her, I don't want to ever bring it up again. She's pretty much the only family member I have left.
I don't see telling anyone else in the future. Knowing the odds, and at this age having friends die off, I don't want to lose the ones I have. I'm pretty good at keeping secrets. So Lexi will remain unknown, probably until I die.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Brenda...I forgot to mention our two Corgi dogs! XOXOXO Scarlett
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Way to go Vicky! XOXOXO Scarlett
Hi Karen! You mentioned makeup artists....I forgot to mention that a few girls at Sephora in the mall and at JC Penney's not far from our home know that I'm a cross dresser and they love it when I bring in my IPad to show them my latest photo shoot. They all want to gather around if no one is in the store and look at the photos and ask me questions like - "Wow, do you really do your own makeup?" or "Are you the one who puts all of your outfits together or does your wife help you?" Or they will say something like - "Girl Friend, I wish I had legs like that and your figure too!"
While I'm in Sephora and the girls are circled around, I always pick their brains concerning everything that I can think to ask them about specific types of makeup and the application of them. One thing I've found out from those girls and the You Tube videos is that absolutely no two girls put their makeup on the same way or in the same order!
XOXOXO Scarlett
A number of members of this site and I have met and become friends. A number of SA's and makeover artist who have helped me in the past. I can't count the times my parents, sisters found me dressed. One sister only remains.
My wife
My kids
My mum
My sisters
My auntie Ann and I guess my cousins, all of whom happen to be girls. We all used to dress up.
Possibly others, but most of the older relatives, that knew I dressed when I was young and more brazen about it, have sadly passed away.
And of courses you wonderful lot. Though you don't know much else about me, even after all these years on the site.
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Through stupidity or bad luck far too many,including those I dearly didn't want to find out.Mainly in my family which has hurt immensely,and I find hard to talk about,but I still live in hope of repairing those relationships.
Its not all bad I've been touched by the support I recieve from co-workers,friends and some of my wife's family.A lot of them have spent time with Sophie.I try to let people see I'm the same person no matter what I may get up to and hope that helps with understanding
I have a lovely circle of friends from the community too,which has helped me get out and experience the joys of being Sophie,I owe them a lot
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We look to Scotland,for all our Ideas of Civilisation-Voltaire
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A woman who loves to wear beautiful clothes is like a flower.
A man who loves to emulate these women is a special flower-a roseFacebook:Sophie Johnson
My ex-wife
My Daughter
My Son
An ex-girlfriend
2 Female friends
1 ex-female friend
My female Doctor
Most of the members of the Seahorse Society
Everyone that goes to the Transformal Ball in Katoomba
Delivery Guy
Everyone I deal with when I go shopping, either that or they are blind lol
The neighbours in the 2 houses behind mine, that overlook my backyard
And a lot of people at work since I wear eye makeup and a bra and breast forms everyday to work
Sophie Mosley
Right now!
My daughter
My son
My sister in law
My counselor
Jennifer who did my transformation
SA at MAC counter
All the girls here
There may be a lot who suspect, but...I expect many more before too long...!
Hugs Lana Mae
Life is worth living!
"Foxy lady! You look so good!!" Jimi Hendrix
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