Reality rarely, if ever, measures up to one's fantasies. I believe that's true in a forced feminization scenario (that's what Monnica was wanting, a 24/7 scenario, right)? Well, it's not going to happen, in spite of your gracious efforts to accommodate M's fantasies. What I don't understand is why Monnica just didn't go along with what you arranged, for a day or two. Did she really believe there was no turning back? If I had to guess, she probably felt guilty over making the request in the first place, and after seeing all the trouble you went to prepare, just added to that guilt. Until Monnica realizes that it's just fantasy, and that your okay with playing along, I wouldn't fret over it. All either of you can do is be yourselves, and do what you feel comfortable doing as a couple.