I recently have joined an LGBTQI movie watching group in my local area and went along once in boy mode to see how it all works and to see how comfortable I am there and then last night, I had the chance to go again but went along as Melissa. Although the group was LGBT (etc), the movie theatre and general crowd and area were just that, general crowd and so I had many interactions with people in the car park and waiting in line to get my movie ticket and nobody cared how I was dressed and I just went about my business and everything went really well. I went way out of my comfort zone but I am looking for more outlets to go out dressed up and when my work roster permits, I will try to make it along again.