I'm a closet cross dresser and probably always will be because I have a beard and mustache that (pardon the pun...) I'm very attached to. My wife, in 33 years of marriage, never saw my upper lip, and my grown children never have either. But I truly enjoy dressing en femme and am almost always dressed in women's clothing when I'm at home. Like many others I read posts from in this forum, I just truly like the look and feel of wearing a bra, panties, breast forms, hose, and a dress or a blouse and skirt. As I move around the house, I'll often stop in front of a mirror and just look at myself for a while. But something was missing for me, and I couldn't figure out what it was. Then one day while I was out running errands, I passed the costume jewelry counter in a department store, and on impulse bought a strand of faux pearls, a gold chain, and several rhinestone and enamel bracelets. When I got home and got "dressed" and then put on the pearls and bracelets, the effect was, to me, simply stunning. Now, putting on these accessories is a standard part of getting dressed.
Clip-on or magnetic earrings are next.