My wife and I are in a deep DADT. She has not said anything for years and years about my cross dressing. Consequently, she has no idea of the extent of my wardrobe. Unfortunately, DADT means everything is in storage boxes; over 18 Xerox boxes stacked in our converted garage. My original collection of lingerie (primarily slips, panties and bras) is kept in a large box in my nightstand by my side of the bed. I keep some of my panties in my armoire. I am envious of those who are able to hang their dresses in plain sight. I have 160 dresses which would never fit in our walk-in closet with all our regular clothes. One of our friends when he had his house built had a storage room built with the only access through a hidden door in the back of a closet in one of the spare bedrooms. I wish I had it.