How do you wash your secret femme wardrobe?

[Sandra_Dodds]

While reading all of the responses to Cindy's thread, I wondered how others who have to hide their wardrobe deal with needing to wash things.

For me, I have to find times when my wife is not around so that I can wash my stuff and it can be such a hassle. My size 14 clothes stand out from her size 8-10 and she rarely wears pantyhose, so my stuff would be pretty obvious mixed in with the regular wash.

Edit: I should mention that my wife works from home 5 days per week, so it's not like she's gone for 8-12 hours.

[Tina Davis]

I have this exact problem but in reverse, my things are smaller than hers! But since I'm the one who does the laundry, I have been able to get my female clothes washed, dried, and put away again without her seeing them. It doesn't happen often because I don't dress often.

[LindaAnne]

I am in a similar situation as my wife rarely leaves the house. Fortunately she has always insisted on her doing her laundry, I do mine. In the rare occasions she leaves the house for a few hours, I'm ready to go with laundry. However if she has not left the house for a while and my panties just can't wait any longer, I have started to add a few at a time (based on colors) to my boy clothes. For example my light and dark blue panties fit in nicely with jeans and my lighter colored panties go well with some of my lighter shirts. That way she wouldn't notice unless she really tried. Also, as far as panties go, I've learned it's key to have a lot (which is not a problem as I love buying them!) so I can go for a bit between washings. I know your problem! Good luck girl.

[sometimes_miss]

Usually have my own washer dryer, but when I didn't, there were always laundramats that were open 24 hrs, and I could always find one that was completely empty at about 3:30 A.M.. By 4:30, I was long gone with all my girly clothes.

[Tracy Irving]

If I needed to wash clothes without my wife finding out I guess I would do it when she is at work. If she doesn't have a job outside the home I could always launder the clothing at a facility dedicated to that need.

Fortunately, our bras go in the same mesh lingerie bag.

[Jaymees22]

I'm so lucky my wife let's me do the wash, the cooking, the cleaning and other things. So I just wash everything together. I'm so lucky??

[ciel64]

washing machine, late at night before I go to bed. (dry it in my room before sleeping though.)

[Cherylgyno]

As a kid my mom washed my feminine clothes. Since I was 20 my wife or I do the laundry. I never had a secret as far as who I am.

[Stacy Darling]

I'm the home maker so do all chores, wife almost never leaves home, 1/2 DADT and still have a few items which I dry in the car or place strategically behind or under other items on the clothes line ( I won't use the drier for clothing )

[Beverley Sims]

At one time when I had problems, I washed things in the shower and hung them up to dry out in the barn with the poultry.

About a seventy percent success rate on that one. :-)

Now days, no problem.

[Bruce64]

My Lingerie is not secretive, so I mostly hand wash them an dry them out on a line. At one time it was secretive and I used to wash my Panties and hang it with a shirt over it using a shirt hanger.

[Helen_Highwater]

Sandra,

Yep, I have that problem. Fortunately I usually get Saturday afternoons home alone so I can wash things then.

The real problem is the items that say don't tumble dry. Can't put them out on the line however in the winter I can hang them over the central heating rads. I always give them a second spin dry to make sure they're as dry as possible first.

Fortunately I only have a relative small amount of items, mainly underwear, that needs washing. However every now and again a dress or two may need cleaning and I have been known to hang those to dry in the garage as my SO rarely goes in there.

Additionally I do my own drab washing and on occasions I have mixed in the odd femme item.

[DIANEF]

I use the washing machine for most things but I have many items that are hand wash only. Many of those I let air dry.

[Teresa]

Sandra,
I had to smile at this question ! I posted thread a while ago about doing some washing and thinking it was safe to to hang it all out to dry on the rotary clothes line. First of all two guys knocked at my door to ask permision to repair the neighbour's fence from my side , and then a tractor appeared in the field behind to cultivate the field beyond my garden. I could see the fence guys eyeing up the underwear and suspender belts and the tractor driver some how managed to stop to take a phone call . OK they could have thought it all belonged to my wife but most of us know very few GGs wear suspender belts with matching panties and bras and the line was full of various colours along with a selection of slips .

[Pixie_94]

Bucket with water and detergent when no one else is at home or when I can be sure no one will go near where I am. Stealthy and tricky, but I know no other ways.

[Rayleen]

My back yard is hidden from the road, I do my own wash and put it out to dry in summer,

living by myself is much easier.

[Chloe St Clair]

There isn't anything secret about my lingerie. It's all in it's own drawer and my wife knows about it.

As for washing, it all gets placed in lingerie bags and put in the washing machine set on the delicate setting. Panties and nightwear go in the dryer on low heat, while stockings and bras are hung to air dry.

[Asew]

I work from home but my wife is a stay at home mom. So when my dressing was a secret, I mainly just wore one skirt that was hidden in the back of my closet and would wash it with my clothes maybe once a month when I knew I could do the wash when she would be out for a while. The other clothes didn't get much wear so they never got washed (once I told my wife I did wash them all before putting them in our closet).

[Eryka1]

I have waited till my sigo is out of the house working. I don't have many items so its not an issue and currently its mostly lingerie so easier to wash.

[NancySue]

Happily, my feminine things aren’t secret. She washes my intimates with hers, hangs our bras and my hose to dry etc. she rarely wears hose...knee highs sometimes. Things that need to be dry cleaned, 👗 she takes to the cleaners. Yes, I appreciate her...a lot.

[Stephanie47]

I wait until my wife is out of the house for her job. When she works it's for seven to eight hours. The key is buying clothes that are quick drying on low heat. Obviously underwear gets changed more than outerwear. I can launder and iron my full slips and dry my panties within the seven hours. I recommend avoiding garments that require hang drying or drying flat.

[gender_blender]

In the clothes washer. How else would you wash clothing??

[Sandra_Dodds]

In the clothes washer. How else would you wash clothing??

Touché

[Richelle423]

My intimates I.e. panties bra by hand let them soak then rinse. The rest throw them into the washing machine. My SO hates it so much that I only wear girl clothes she won't turn them right side out again after they're washed. But at least they get washed. Not a secret anymore.

[Dana44]

MY gf and I wash all our fem clothes together on Sunday. She takes my clothes really nice and helps fold them.