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    I had a thought last night wondering if it would be possible to go to a hypnotist and be hypnotized to act like a woman? Walk like a woman, talk like a woman, sit like a woman, etc..

    These things can be learned I suppose, but with great concentration and effort. Being hypnotized would seem much easier.
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    What type of woman would we end up as though, and would I have any boundaries? The more I think about this the scarier it is!

    And I only believe in science!

    I'm going to stick with doing it my way! the hard wired way!
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    Not all women walk, talk, and sit the same way, and some in a not so feminine manner. A hypnotized man would most likely appear to be an over-the-top stereotype of an effeminate man.

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    The only thing it may result in, is you're behaving as YOU think women behave. Especially since you don't have the proper anatomy, there's no way to give you some magic thoughts that will instantly make you appear to be behaving physically exactly as a GG does. Besides, right now one of the biggest tells is going just a little too far over the top, and accentuating stereotypical female movement TOO much, which just quickly draws the attention of the eye and makes you even more likely to be examined critically for anything else that might indicate that you're not what you appear to be.
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    I am not sure hypnotism works as we imagine.

    I was supposedly hypnotised on stage years ago and I do not remember anything that happened whilst under the trance.
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    The first thing when it comes to being hypnotized, I understand< is you must believe it's possible. I would love to be hypnotized for some different things...starting with a mindset of being female. I would prefer a partner that would use a trigger word/words. How cool would that be!??!? I'm too cheap to buy all any of the hypnotic downloads or CD's from websites (like warpmymind.com) but I've tried some of the free stuff and it does have some effect but you have to be religious for doing them consistently.

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    My understanding is that the jury is still out on the effectiveness of hypnosis for long term behavioral modification. Or to put it another way, we only know that hypnosis works WHILE you’re under, so unless you want to remain in a hypnotic state forever...

    There are stories of people using hypnosis for weight loss or smoking cessation, but we only have anecdotal evidence there.

    To be honest, I don’t know that I WANT someone tinkering with my unconscious thoughts. I think I’d rather attend a “finishing school” to learn that kind of stuff.
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    A friend went to a hypnotist to quit smoking and it seems he did quit.
    We both quit within the same month in 2016 and I just did it cold turkey which wasn't hard.
    I paid nothing and he paid $250 so if you think it will work go ahead.
    Personally I would not like someone to manipulate my thoughts with trigger words and cause me to do things with out my knowledge.

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    The problem is even if it works, women have been women all their lives. So they naturally act like women.

    Without a lifetime of subcontiously acting like a woman, how does your subconscious mind know how to act like a woman?

    So as Nicole said before, you would probably just end up looking like an man trying to act like a woman.
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    I am going to do a frank Sinatra and do it "MY WAY".

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    I wouldn't care about anyone elses thoughts or perspectives because the experience would be real to me

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    Quote Originally Posted by carolyn todd View Post
    I am going to do a frank Sinatra and do it "MY WAY". Carolyn
    I don't think that will work either, Carolyn. I remember old blue eyes quite well. Don't recall him ever doing a realistic female presentation. Or, ANY female impersonations for that matter!
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    Perhaps you might be hypnotized to emulate a woman in the same way that some have been hypnotized to emulate a chicken....probably about as authentic and convincing. But I'm only speculating, give it a try and report back.
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    Can they hypnotize me to be better looking (and shorted and lighter) when crossdressed?

    [edit] oh yeah, and much younger.
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    Physically no Taylor but they can make you "think" you are LOLOL.

    OMG I can't imagine being hypnotized and think I would look good in a pair of Daisy Duke shorts and a tube top.LOLOL.
    I certainly don't have the figure for that and to go out and actually think it looks good would be mortifying.

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    To me, hypnosis is truly believing something that isn't true. Most of us believe things are true without really knowing the complete truth. We can investigate, study, and search for the truth about something and still not know for sure.

    If you truly believe you are a woman you will more than likely act like one including mannerisms, speech etc.
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder

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    Tracii G: to go out and actually think it looks good would be mortifying.
    Yes .. to others maybe, but not to you!! That's the beauty of the hypnosis

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    Yes to others is what I meant Suzie.

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    Like Debbie Harry sang, I walk like me. And Debbie Harry's a woman, so problem solved, at least as far as walking.

    More seriously, these hypnosis fantasies just seem like another way of rationalizing that one doesn't want something that's perceived to be socially unacceptable to want. "I wish I could be forced into it."
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    Hypnosis can't make you do anything you would NOT want to do in the first place. When you are Hypnotized, you DO feel good, like when you first wake up in the morning and don't want to move, just yet. You want to "keep" the good feeling.---When hypnotized, you are doing a "balancing game"---you know you will keep "the feeling" as long as you follow "instructions"----so hey, why not? you ARE aware of what is going on at the time. But if doing something is against your desires or feelings, you won't do it----The "spell" is broken, it was not worth it to YOU to do that.---so you not only don't follow the command, but of course, you are no longer in that blissful Hypnotic state.

    At least that's the way it is in most Hypnotic situations.---And also you cannot do something you might not know how to do in the first place.

    Of course Hypnosis is a more complicated subject, including "deeper trance states", "Post hypnotic suggestions" and the like. But the above usually holds at all levels. ( I have done Hypnosis for "past life recalls", fun, etc.)

    I have a peculiar "inability" as far as "acting like a Woman" goes---I can either Dress like one and present a fair "appearance" OR I can act like one in Male mode, but I cannot make myself do BOTH at the same time ---In public anyway. A personal "hang -up" to be sure---perhaps Hypnosis might help. That is a big reason I do not go out--save for Costume party of stage skits, dressed---(It does not matter in those cases)

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarinaTwelve200 View Post
    And also you cannot do something you might not know how to do in the first place.
    ^^Yes to this.^^

    Hypnosis will not enable you to be a great pianist or singer or painter or actor, or as the OP posits: "act like a woman or walk like a woman or talk like a woman or sit like a woman," unless you already have those skills.

    It's a fun fantasy though.
    Last edited by Taylor186; 04-21-2018 at 02:36 PM.

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    .It would depend on your concept of how a woman acts; this could be Milton Berle in drag, Mrs. Doubtfire, Tootsie, Ann-Margaret, Kathleen Turner, Susan Sarandon, your Mom, sister, grandma, or neighbor lady or just about anyone else and knowing how to achieve that behavior.
    Seems pretty doubtful to me.
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    Krisi,
    I'm not sure how long hynosis can last for, I know people use it to stop smoking but is it a short term influence that enables the person to break the habit ?

    In the circusatnces you describe could you transpose the word hypnotise to read brainwash , in fact is it the same thing ?

    Now if it were possible, it's suggesting there's a cure , I'm so glad my wife didn't get to hear of it !!

    You realise you could be entering a World of zombies !!

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    Ladies, it was just a thought and not a serious one like I was going to dash down to my local hypnotist and shell out a couple hundred dollars for an experiment.

    As most of us know, we can capture our feminine image by selecting the best shot of a hundred or so photos, post it here and get dozens of compliments, but in real life or even a video, we have dozens of male mannerisms that give us away. The way we walk, the way we hold our arms and hands, our posture, etc. and obviously, our voice. Even if we can raise the pitch, women speak very differently than men. Inflections, tempo, even the number of words to tell a story.

    Some of us know these differences and try to compensate but it's nearly impossible unless you practice every day for hours.
    Krisi

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    Krisi,

    I thought it was a good question. You are not typically given to fantasy, and I would not think that you would have an unrealistic expectation.

    What I do know about hypnosis and possible effectiveness is that it might help you overcome some inhibitions that could affect your performance. That could help with deportment, dancing, speach. It might also tune in verbal response choices and some behavioral traits. I also don't think it is reasonable for us to always assume that just because we are men, we are unaware of typical female behavior.

    In fact we generally are aware. It's how we read others and have biases. Unavoidable, but not always bad. Without some bias we could not function as quickly and effectively on a day to day basis. We need to be cognizant of our biases though, to avoid negative or limiting behavior.

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