I had an interesting thing happen today, but first I need to provide a bit of background.
I have a lot of fear about having one-on-one interactions with others while dressed. When I am mingling in a crowd, I am okay. It's when I need to talk to someone that my stomach still churns.
A few weeks ago, I decided to try going through a drive thru for lunch. I live in a small town, so I don't really want to be noticed, and doing that is somewhat difficult to do. I racked my brain on where to go, and the only drive thru I had never been through is Jimmy John's sandwich shop. I'm not a big fan of sandwiches in general, which is the main reason why I haven't been through their drive thru.
I've been doing this on Fridays for three weeks in a row, and I feel it is helping with my fears. I documented the first week on my blog if you are interested in reading about it later: https://crossdresserreport.com/overc...ar-samis-week/
Now for what happened today...
When I arrived at the window to pay, I was greeted by the same person as last week. He took my money and then went to the indoor counter to help someone else. A minute later a cook arrived at the window to hand me my order. What he said was, "Here you go, boss!"
What I don't know is whether I was read (which could have easily happened), or whether this is just the way he speaks to everyone. It struck me as a little funny, but he didn't have a smile on his face when he said it (although he was polite and professional). I would have liked it to be "Here you go, ma'am" or something like that.
Here's the question for those of you who are more versed in one-on-one interactions while dressed. Am I reading too much into what he said? Perhaps it was something like the waitress who always calls everybody "Dear". Or do you think he may have been having some fun at my expense? I am a little concerned about it but still plan to go again next Friday.
Thanks, Sami