Definitely a want. But sometimes a very strong want. I remember when it was a secret and I would see an opportunity coming up to dress and would look forward to it. If for some reason it got cancelled, I would absolutely crave when could I even get 5-10 minutes to dress. The other day it was quite stressful and my wife told me to go put on a skirt already and do something calming and it really helped even though I wasn't craving to dress.