The other day I was travelling by train (drab) and sat on the other side of the carriage one row ahead of me was a fellow passenger. We were both facing the same way so all I could see were legs and hands, everything else pretty much hidden by the seating.
White trainers and socks, jeans turned up cowboy style at the hem, legs crossed at the knee. So it's a female.
Hands using a mobile. Skin looked quiet course, a little blotchy and while not large this could be a smaller male. The one fingered typing and the way the phone was held sort of reinforced that possibility. Add to this I could just see a little bit of a jacket that looked more like a man's. I really wouldn't have liked to bet my mortgage on getting the gender correct.
It turns out my first guess was correct, it's a GG. It did however make me think just how important these little clues are. Yes what you wear is important but it's often the little things that add up to the whole.
Mannerisms, a piece of jewellery, so many indicators we use to make these decisions.
This just reinforced my conviction that if you can get as many if these little "tells" right, blending becomes far more achievable than many would believe.
Had it been me sat there enfemme and an observer looking at me I'm fairly confident if they couldn't see my face I'd at least create the same level of doubt as I encountered. Hopefully as I'd be more formally dressed, skirt, knee high boots, blouse, I'd create less doubt. My visible "tells" would be stronger....... until they saw my face. Can't have it all but I'll take the rest and go with it.