When I was a child my family and friends were this is what a man does, this is the expectation. That was incredibly hard to get over as I didn't want to disappoint my parents, even when I experimented with dressing when I was a lot younger. It was not until I told my wife a few years ago that I could dare to even think about dressing as something that I could do. It probably help that her reaction was one of understanding and wondering why I was so worried about it.

This has helped me relax into Zoe and letting her guide me on this journey, ever since I have managed to let go of my worries it has been far more fun to be me and me.