Hi girls, I was wondering when you told your wife or significant other, what were a few reasons you gave her as to why you had to cross dress?
I told my wife that cross dressing had been a part of my life dating back to when I was a young boy. And that she wouldn't believe how many men are out there enjoy wearing women's panties or clothing and why it was so exciting for men to do it. And how there maybe men working for her now that may have a pair of sexy panties on or some thigh high hose on underneath their regular men's clothing and she would never suspect it or know it had been going on for years!
I also told her that based on my research on cross dressing, many women can't understand why a guy would find putting on lady's panties, skirts, tops, dresses, heels, jewelry and accessories exciting. Reason being, because they would not find (only in much rarer cases) women getting excited about putting on men's underwear with a pair of khaki shorts, a pocket T shirt, and a pair of deck shoes. This is why many of them can't understand why men get excited and find a strong need to cross dress as a girl/lady/women. Because most of them can't see getting excited about putting on men's clothing.
I also told her that I understand why she and many other women don't want to talk about cross dressing and don't want to see their husbands or significant others dressed up as a girl. I also told her that my need to cross dress is extremely strong and will remain so for probably many years, however, I would respect her wishes and limits to my cross dressing and I was to keep it private and won't do it while she was in the house.
I told her how much of a thrill it was to transform myself from a handsome guy to a cute, pretty, sexy, and classy girl like she gets to dress up as every day. We men find putting on sexy panties, tights, thigh high hose, panty hose, dresses, skirts, tops, heels, boots, booties, makeup, wigs etc. to be exciting, thrilling, sensual, sexy, and even relaxing and even very therapeutic! That the feel of the things that she gets to wear every single day fills all of the above adjectives for us. There's nothing quite like feeling the thigh high hose against our skin - same with the panties, bras, jewelry, and all types of female clothing, footwear, jewelry, makeup etc. To them it's no where near as exciting because they've been doing it all of their lives every day. We, as men who cross dress, enjoy every single part of the cross dressing process from beginning to end.
I could write about this subject for days so I'll bring it to an end now and wait to hear from you and why and how you told your wife or significant other as to why you felt such a strong need to cross dress.
Thanks for reading and I'm looking forward to hearing your answers to this question...XOXOXO Scarlett