OK another outing stepping stone .
I had an appointment to get the arthritis in my big toes checked at my GP's surgery ,so I went dressed in a skirt and Tshirt with wedges I could easliy slip off and of course makeup and wig and even my toes painted !! He had a quick look and printed out an Xray request for me to take to the hospital . We talked more about transition than my feet , so it's clear I have support if I need it .
The information on the Xray sheet showed that they do evening session from 5.30 pm to 7.30 pm so I grabbed a quick meal to catch the 5.30 slot , I decided to change into my slim fit jeans striped Tshirt and flat canvas shoes otherwise still made up . I had a great conversation with a Canadian lady while she waited for her husband, she was very interested about the family side of my dressing , she said I can see your'e happy and looked great . The radioligist booked me into the hospital system and offered me the options of what name and gender did I wish to use . For the nedical register I stuck with male and my normal name but if I had been on hormones I did have a choice . He than came out to me , saying you're not the only one to wear makeup and then admitted he's into Goth with heavy eye makeup and dark lipstick , he didn't mention the clothes but I'm sure he would have told me if we'd had more time .
So there we go another enjoyable day dressed , and another one coming out to me , I really am beginning to regret not pushing to be out more sooner , I know it's so easy to see it all in hindsight but where are all the obstacles so many of us fear , given half the chance there are so many just waiting to be free to come out themselves .