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    Miss Judy Judy-Somthing's Avatar
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    Are you a Bitch?

    I find that when anyone tries to interfere with my time of opportunity to dress I get! Bitchie!

    Since my son moved home and sleeps late on the day my wife works he says I've been unpleasant at times.
    Of course I'm afraid to tell him why.
    Also when I have time off from work and I think I can dress my wife seems to always give me chores to fill up my time!.

    That's why I'm bitchie!

    How about you?
    "This is ME" I am not CRAZY, I'm just a GUY who likes dresses!
    Since allot of men dress up in woman's clothing that makes it a manly thing to do!
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    I can only be me Samm's Avatar
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    My wife has been know to actually call me a bitch. But she's right, because there are times I tend to get bitchy when it comes to missed opportunities to dress.

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    Tell him to move out if he says you are unpleasant LOL Its your house you can be however you want.

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    I think I sometimes get this way too. Sometimes we just need that time to unwind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Judy-Somthing View Post
    I find that when anyone tries to interfere with my time of opportunity to dress I get! Bitchie!

    Also when I have time off from work and I think I can dress my wife seems to always give me chores to fill up my time!.
    So, I'm not the only one with a wife that schedules activities and finds chores for me that interfere with possible dressing time?
    But as far as being a bitch. Moi? I'm the model of pleasantness, just ask me

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    Not so much anymore. But then, I only share my space with an old dog - she literally is a bitch.
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

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    Nothing wrong with being a bitch, as a matter of fact my wife tells me she can handle the dressing but can't handle when I get upset when lost opportunity. I also become a bitch when that happens. I have learned a few lessons, never tell your family members that your taking a day off, they will go out of there way to ruin it.
    I don't blame you for being a bitch, I know it gets frustrating.

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    I certainly get bitchy when I lose one of my limited opportunities to dress, as my wife has pointed out to me on more than one occasion.

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    No not these days,I look on the bright side of life. :-)
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    Judy,
    Perhaps I wouldn't use bitch, maybe a bear with a very sore head is nearer the mark !

    I hated it , life does feel so unfair , no one cares what's going on inside , being a husband and dad often means we don't have feelings and needs of our own . I had the lists and I got the big question of what have I been doing all day when they weren't all crossed off !

    We all know the cure so how do you get to it ? For me it was socialising , at least I manged to work that concession how I don't know but counselling helped in the decision .

    I'm so glad it's all behind me , I knew it couldn't go on, I had a life too which I wasn't living .
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    I get very bitchy when I cant dress. Even though I know what causes it it still gets to me.

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    I also could say it happened to me in the past with wife at home, I usually got out of the house to clear my frustration at times.

    Rayleen.
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    The important thing is that you recognize when you are. Now about that scheduling thing, a very tricky and possibly unconscious form of passive aggressive behavior. Not uncommon. You will just have to learn how to deal with it. Try not to fall into a tit for tat.

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    I could see how losing a regularly scheduled opportunity to dress would be upsetting. If the dressing is at random intervals it is much easier to go with the flow.

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    I don't get bitchy, I get depressed. But I know what you mean.

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    Yes. I think it is the worst when you think you have a time to dress and something comes up changing the plans.

    Now that my wife knows and accepts my dressing, I wear skirts most days and about once a week I get fully dressed to put away my wife's laundry and clean up the bedroom (win win since my wife hates laundry more than any other chore). So by having regularity to my dressing a missed opportunity doesn't bother me that much anymore. But when a big chunk of time is taken away it still stings

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    I get more irritated when I get an opportunity to get fully dressed, makeup and the works and bam ne of the kids call asking if we can keep the grandkids for the weekend. My wife says I get grumpy, but I love those little buggers but dang a girl has to have a chance to get all dolled up every once in a while. I've found though it helps just wearing my panties and have the feeling of them on helps but it still doesn't sooth the beast inside that wants to see me in the mirror dressed. Guess I'm not bitchy just grumpy.

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    Yes, sometimes. But only when I wear male clothing. When dressed I'm gentle as a kitten.

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    I feel that way at times for the same reasons, but I do not act on it. Do not want to upset or screw up a wonder marriage

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    Just can't help myself! Brenda456's Avatar
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    There is one day a week I can usually dress nice. The last two times, something has come up and prevented me from having that time to myself. It resulted in me feeling a bit frustrated and cranky. You have my sympathy.

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    I think in my case I pout more I'm told. Doesn't always help but I don't even know I'm doing it sometimes. :-)

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    I dress most days anymore. I have become more the house wife. My wife does expect, and somewhat demands I do chores inside the house when dressed fem. I even bought a couple 50's style dressed to feel the part. I do dress full and smooth all over. When she comes home for lunch, I have her lunch ready, or dinner. Sure, there are day's I am bitchy. Whats a girl to do?

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    My wife says that I am my cat's bitch, but I don't think she means that in the same way.qb
    I am a vessel of the goddess. Let me express my calling to a feminine life through nurturing love and relatedness.

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    A man cannot co-opt being a bitch. It has to be genuinely bestowed on you.

    A bitchy man is just a d&#^. Or maybe an apple. But not a bitch.
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    Nope I am not. Final answer
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