As I have said before the girls in my family know about Emily. This year we went out for my birthday. This is the first year Emily has gotten to celebrate in public. My sister, my wife and my 9 year old daughter went out for dinner. When we returned home my father was in the driveway, he wanted to surprise me for my birthday. More like he was going to get a surprise (he had never met Emily). My sister got out of the car with my daughter to soften the blow. They talked for what seemed like an eternity. Then my daughter smiled and motioned for us to get out of the car. I got out and my sister said "Dad this is Emily" He said "Hello Emily, Happy birthday, all of u look so pretty. I smiled the biggest smile.
For the next few hours my father and I talked about how Emily had come to be. About how it started out when I was younger and how for years I hid it from both him and mom. I told him that I told mom the week before she passed and how she said that she always knew. He smiled and said she told him.
He struggled with it for a while but realized that I was still his child and that he would love me no matter what even if he had two daughters or a son and daughter. He asked if he and Emily could go on a daddy daughter date, since he wanted to get to know his other daughter.
During our date he asked if I was going to transition and if I did he is ok with it and will still love me the same.
Having the approval of my daddy makes me the happiest girl in the world. I LOVE MY DADDY.