Just a question and I am not trying to start WW-III.
When I was surfing the web regarding crossdressing, I noticed there were several pictures of chastity.
My question is, is this very common, some what common, rarely common, or WHAT THE HELL as it relates to crossdressing?
Again, NOT TRYING TO START WW-III, just a question.
I looked the definition of chastity up and it says it's regarding a virtue in women that are married and became the property of the husband. My wife said no way she was my property but she was my wife.
I can't see a CD becoming the property of anyone? I have always thought that it was being true sexually to a mate. Who knows and I don't want to start a war either just looking at a definition.
To me, the word "Chasity" brings to mind a BDSM fetish where the penis is locked up.
That is not Crossdressing .. That is a whole other world of sexual fetishism
Sara
Not sure how it relates or why it would necessarily have any relation to dressing. Unless it’s just another one of those imaginary associations some people have about crossdressing like coming to conclusions about one’s sexual preferences if you dress, etc.
Michaela
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Its the internet. So, relevance and factuality are optional. I remember a few years ago when I received an email that mentioned my older brother had "shingles". I immediately started getting ads for roofing materials!
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Michaela
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The way I understand how this may be associated with crossdressing is if the man is being kept in chasity he many times
will also be feminized by a domniate women so that’s my guess
Rachel ìs getting closer. You will find all sorts of sites for feminization, forced or voluntary, and they will often involve the use of chastity devices and discipline inflicted by a dominant wife. Eric Stanton wrote several graphic stories based on this subject.
I don't recall seeing anything like this in this forum and that is one of the reasons I come here.
There is sissyfication, Dressing your man in woman's frillies, and locking him up. Crossdressing is not a clear sharp line.Originally Posted by Sara.Blue
Ok, everyone all at once Google "Chastity + Crossdresser" and see what pops up!
I did read some time ago that crossdressing men have a greater tendency to be involved in the BDSM scene than those that don't dress. As others have said, I think there is a definite distinction between those, like us, who crossdress because of the way we are and those who are forced into being sissy's by dominant partners. They are the ones more likely to also practice chastity.
Personally, even though I really wish it was different between my legs, I'm definitely not going to add anything to the bulge already there. From the photos it appears to add to the 'male' look not diminish it.
Sasha
Jennifer,
To practice chastity doen't mean you have to crossdress , some people women included do discreetly wear chastity belts under normal clothes ,for what ever reason .
OK it is more normally accepted a CDer will accept a submissive role and be cuckold and humiliated normally in sissy style clothing . It also enters the realms of BDSM but CDing and this situation don't go hand in hand . Maid outfits for example can suggest a subservient role , to obey the master or mistress and be chastised when you don't perform your duties .
How common is it ? Well it's hard to answer because it mostly goes on behind closed doors , occasionlly we have had some very well know people been caught out by newspaper exposure ! I hate that situation , I'd love to get a cherry picker sometimes and peer into editor's offices to find out what they get up to when the shutters are drawn , same old story one rule for one and a different rule for others !!
it's more of a fetish thing, I have several chastity devices, we use them during "playtime" role playing. it's not for everyone.
Yep. Nothing but porn links.Ok, everyone all at once Google "Chastity + Crossdresser" and see what pops up!
"Taking the time to be in touch with my feminine side"
Thank you everyone
Your take was very close to what I was thinking and expecting.
The web is a wonderful thing.
That's part of the whole "forced feminizeation" and "sissy" fantasy thing. Some guys take to the point of "Your penis is useless to women to so it's locked up" and now they only can have sex with men like a girl.
I have viewed and know all to well what sissyfication is. When deciding to go from dressing for my own personal thing to looking for legit resources, the net would steer me to "Drag Queens" or "Sissies". Either is ok, to each their own, but neither is my thing.
Crossdressing is not a sharp defied line and it gets pulled to fetish extremes where it is no longer "Dressing". Myself I dress for the pure enjoyment of feeling sexy. I do not wish to be outrageous and the sissy / feminization thing does nothing for me. I just want to be comfortable and feel pretty
Sara
Last edited by Sara.Blue; 06-24-2018 at 12:45 PM.
I'm just curious as to what exactly the OP was referring to when she spoke of seeing "pictures of chastity" on the internet. As far as I am aware, "chastity" is either a concept, a practice, or a personal belief and a lifestyle as the other posters here have also alluded to, and not a visual unless related to actual depictions of chastity belts or some sort of fetishistic BDSM activity.
Perhaps a more appropriate (and relevant) question in this regard would be whether or not there is a connection between being "asexual" (i.e. having no interest in sex altogether) and crossdressing.
I'm willing to bet that for most of us here who are in DADT or otherwise unsupportive relationships, sexual activity between ourselves and our partners fell by the wayside years ago because they eventually turned their backs on us, given that we ended up not being the manly "real men" they thought that they had originally married. So, "asexual"..."forced chastity"...six of one an half a dozen of the other...terms and concepts ultimately differentiated only by nuances and semantics.
Then there are those of us who either are (or became) asexual because the "dream girl" that we created for ourselves and embrace on a regular basis is enough to satisfy our libidos. That, of course, is the basis of much of the jealousy and aversion to our crossdressing that many of our partners who would otherwise still be willing to have sex with wrestle with, resulting in endless tensions within our relationships.
I think that everything being mentioned in this thread needs to be explored and fully enjoyed.
Often..........and with crossdressing!
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
I assume u mean Sonny and Cher's "son"?
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
My own opinion about this is, that the guilt the crossdresser feels, results in feeling like he should be punished for it, and that punishment will be orgasm control by someone else. So, chastity. There you go.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Hooray!
Sherry solved the riddle.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Male chastity appears to be just another emasculation fetish like small penis humiliation, femdom, cuckoldry, AGP, etc. which, like it or not, are all highly correlated with crossdressing. I used to be able to congratulate myself that at least I wasn't into male chastity, but then I realized that I got the same effect from tucking.
Dandizette,
I'm not sure why you put AGP in the same category as the rest of your list , I'm not going to sidetrack this thread but the fetish elelment is only a small part of the whole picture in AGP . I may have a couple of maid outfits but I'm not into all that other stuff , they're just fun to wear sometimes .
It's a "Sissy" fetish thing. You see a lot of it on places like reddit. It's quite popular.
Like it or not. It is associated with crossdressing, since it's a fetish that involves CD'ing.
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