IF IT FEELS WRONG THEN IT PROBABLY IS
A phrase used in another post intergied me! There are so many things that we do in life on a daily basis that feel wrong doing but are they?
I know that this is a phrase that can easily be taken out of context but let's try to keep it in the context of crossdressing.
A little background. I come from an age ( in my upbringing ) the word transvestite (a word that I still don't like but have come to accept) was associated with sexual perversion.
That being said crossdressing felt good, it felt right, and most of all I liked it then and still do. The thing is society did not accept it then and barely does now! So does it feel wrong :YES why because of the lack of acceptance. I, we are not accepted that we feel right doing what we do! Does that make it wrong NO, not to me, not to most of us. We are people that are trying to enjoy life to its fullest in our own way (another phrase). Yet we are condemned, ridiculed for, and not accepted for what we feel right doing (IT DOES NOT FEEL WRONG NOT TO ME) therefore is it wrong to feel right? We are all individuals we all have feelings of what is wrong or right to us so why does one's right make another's wrong or one's wrong another's right?
There are those who will say that it is wrong in the eyes of our maker. Is it, if we feel right doing it. I don't feel wrong in those eyes when I am dressed I don't feel condemned I feel right! Yet I am not accepted for feeling right I am condemned for it.
Well that's my little rant I'm a crossdressing transvestite and I DON'T feel wrong so to me it's NOT!
So does it feel wrong to you?