When going out, if married, what do you do with your male wedding ring?

[CD_Danielle]

Hello Ladies,
This is something I have been pondering upon for some time now. When I decide I wish to go out in public en femme what should I do with my wedding ring? The ring impression will still be there if I take the ring off and what if I go out with my wife, as I would most likely do?

My opinion is that I should buy a wedding band and engagement ring which my wife would help me chose. I would then ask her if she would like to have a small ceremony where she gives me these rings as in a wedding ceremony of some type. Then when we go out it would appear to others as two married women out together for a ladies night out.

What is your opinion or comment about this, thanks.

Danielle

[Jaylyn]

If I were out it wouldn't be a problem since I don't wear my ring because of the dangers of wearing it around the farm. I do like your idea of buying a ring and the ceremony.

[2B Natasha]

Sure thats sounds like a nice idea. More femme rings and a little ceremony.

Myself. I just wear my regular band. It's big. It's silver. It's a custom design so there is no hiding that it's mine. I never found it to be an issue honestly. I wear other rings on other fingers so it doesn't really stand out, but i's there.

[DIANEF]

Mine stays on, I just add a few more rings to my normal four.

[Teresa]

Danilelle,
I've never been a great ring wearer but from a safety point of view they were too dangerous to wear in my previous occupation maintaining a RADAR site , in the days of valve equipment with high voltages and large currents . In my photography I couldn't wear them because of the chemicals in my darkroom .

So rings don't give me a problem when going out dressed .

[Sarah Louise]

I still wear it. I just add another engagement type ring to the same finger. I'm a married lady you know!

[IamWren]

When I first went out with the ladies here in Houston for the monthly GNO, not having a wedding ring was something that kind of bothered me. So I looked for a very inexpensive, zirconia type stone. I think this was about 20 or 25 USD.

For anyone thinking this might be a solution for you, I should note one of the members here pointed out that a ring that inexpensive may become worn looking or the “silver” outer part of it may wear off and reveal the dull metal underneath.

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[Stevann]

Some years ago I was hit on when I wasn't wearing any ring, so I bought a wedding band and engagement ring combo that I use in public. After all, I AM married.

[jenniferinsf]

i have a silver wedding set that i put on in lieu of gold band

[Tina Davis]

Originally, I would take off my band and go out with other rings on. This year, I bought a silver three-stone CZ ring and now will wear that instead of my ring. I have looked at some of the sets that simulate a wedding set, maybe next time.

[Jenny22]

True, the finish will wear off. It will last much longer if you only wear the rings when you go out.

[Becky Blue]

If I remember I put it on a different finger a couple of other rings help too!!

[Sidney]

My wife and I have matching custom made bands so I just wear what I always wear. Of course IF we ever went out dressed together and anyone notices matching custom bands (we do get comments all the time) we just may get pegged as an elderly lesbian couple.

[Joni T]

I bought a wedding set at a silver shop for about $20 20 years ago. My male band comes off and the ring and guard take its place. Easy-peasy and no ceremony required. Don't over-think it.
Jon

[Michaelasfun]

I just take off my ring and substitute the imitation diamond ring I got for just such occasions

[Beverley Sims]

I have a nice diamond cluster I fit over my wedding ring.

It's the nicest piece of glass I own.

[Jolene Robertson]

My wife bought me a sterling engagement/wedding set to wear and I wear it often even in guy mode. And she got me a gold engagement ring to go with my wedding ring so I am covered in both tones. It's great to have a wife who is both supporting and understanding. I am Blessed.

[GracieRose]

My wedding ring is white gold. I added a silver engagement ring with a nice looking cubic zirconium stone. My first one was cheaper and the coating did wear down to the copper base metal. Since then, I've found a better ring with better plating. I love slipping it on over my plain unisex wedding ring.

[Stephanie Julianna]

My wedding ring is an Irish Claddagh Ring. I have worn my wedding ring for 47 years and don't plan to switch it out for any other. For those that don't know the meaning of the ring, The heart is love, the crown is fidelity and the hands are for friendship.

[IleneD]

I wear it. Proudly.
This ring isn't coming off; not in this life or the next.

[Rachelakld]

I only wear female rings, my wedding ring has been in the draw these last 10 wonderful years, as in male mode I'm always around live electrical wires and I've seen what electricity and metal rings and watches do when they get together.

[Xenia]

Like others, I bought an inexpensive women's engagement ring/wedding band set on eBay to swap for my male ring when Xenia comes out to play.

And then, since I'm really not much of a jewelry-wearer, I always forget about it until 30 minutes after I've left the house...

[Kiwi Primrose]

My gold wedding ring is over 60 Years old. I wear it all the time with a second, more recent, gold ring.

[CDYoga]

I personally don't wear my ring a lot, but I wouldn't take it off just because I was dressing.

[Teresa]

Rachel,
Been there and made that mistake , even on a car battery my finger was badly burnt when a spanner slipped and I shorted a terminal out with my ring .

With old valve equipment on a high powered radar system sparks did often fly , it was a definite NO-NO !