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    Okay so this happened... and it was one of the best nights of my life!

    So in this thread ( https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...e-with-my-Wife ) I talk about how my wife offered me some style advice and even offered to take me out shopping for my birthday, which was a huge surprise. While accepting, she's struggles with all of this sometimes. Since she has told me that she's not ready to participate in my dressing, and that she may never be, I assumed that she would be going by pictures that she's seen, and offering advice on how to "put myself together" a little more, and taking me out to the mall to look for some clothes for Katrina. She had told me that the caveat was that I would have to try things on for her while out. I assumed that this would be in drab.

    The night before we were supposed to go do all this, we had a major misunderstanding. She thought I would be dressed. I was kind of blindsided by this because I didn't think that was an option. We chatted, and she said that what we should really do is go shopping in drab, then get dressed and go out for dinner and dancing. I just about had a panic attack as this would be my first real time out of the house! The furthest out of the house I had been before that was to the mall, by myself, where I pranced through the place to prove to myself I was ready to leave the house, but this was a whole other level! Got everything ready to go (we were going to stay at my brother's house in LA who is out of town) and off we went the next day. We shopped all afternoon! Got a really cute little blue and pink dress at Nordstroms my wife picked out for me. "hun, you know I'll have to shave my legs to wear this don't you?"

    We went back to the house, and whirlwind of getting ready ensued. Shaved legs... Took an Uber to West Hollywood where we had found this highly rated LGBTQ friendly restaurant. Had a nice dinner, then afterwards went for a walk and ended up in a gay dance club dancing until 3am. I didn't buy myself a drink all night! The combination of my birthday and first real time out of the house had everyone buying me drinks all night!

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    I was expecting the process of coming out to the world to be slow and gradual... baby steps... my wife put me in a barrel and sent me over Niagara Falls and I LOVED IT!!!!

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    Gold Member Read only Rachael Leigh's Avatar
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    Katrina you have nothing to worry about, your gorgeous

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    Katrina, you are lovely and like your pink and blue dress, glad you had a great outing

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    I would not have known.

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    You look awesome I think your wife did the right thing by putting you on the spot like that.

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    Wow - that's terrific! Great pics

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    Hi Katrina , That was a wonderful story , You are a very lovely young lady. >Orchid ..OO..
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    What a beautiful story. My wife is accepting but nothing like that. Treat her right. Looks like you have a keeper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sidney View Post
    Oh, forgot, you look beautiful. Wish I could pass like you.
    Agreed x 2!

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    That's love! Perfect outfit
    The best dress in my wardrobe? A happy smile!

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    A nice uplifting story. I hope it's the first of many for you

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    Wow! I'm almost out of breath reading your story. That sounds like the best birthday present ever. My wife is understanding; however, I know she would never go out in public with me or even let me go out.

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    Awesome present, glad it went well for you.
    I dont think I would ever have the nerve.
    By the looks of it, you dont have anything to worry about.

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    wow....take a deep deep breath...and release it slowly. Now count your many blessings. And when you're done with that, think long and hard about how you are going to reciprocate with something utterly over the top, fantastic and undreamed of for your wife. I think she's earned it.

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    Welcome to the world KatrinaK!

    Congrats on taking 'one giant leap...'

    Be warned though: Once out and about, you're never gonna want to go back!
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    So happy for you and very jealous!

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    WOW! That is an amazing birthday story! Your wife came around to accepting you in a hurry and in a really big way. So fantastic, but when you can put yourself together that nicely, why wouldnt she? Maybe she's found herself a new girlfriend?

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    Happy Birthday and congratulations on achieving a new milestone.

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    A really nice story, Katrina. It sounds to me like that was a good experience for you.

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    wow, so happy for you!

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    You looked great and you are so lucky to have her support you. My wife has mentioned going out with me, but did admit if I was harassed, she would not protect me but would probably join in.
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    Katrina, what a great birthday and attitude of your wife - you must be very happy ...

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    Katrina I so much enjoyed hearing about your great birthday outing. Yake care of your lovely wife you are a lucky person. Best wishes and thanks for sharing your adventure. You look great in your pictures.
    Teri Ray Rural Idaho Girl.

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    Thanks again for all the birthday wishes and sweet comments! XOXOXO

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    Happy belated birthday! Sounds like you had a great one! Hug your wife and don't ever let go! Best wishes to both! Hugs Lana Mae
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