For years my dressing was a source of conflict in my marriage. I was completely closeted, and any mistake such as accidentally leaving a pair of my panties in the dryer, was cause for a brutal fight.
That changed recently, and the anger part of her reaction simply evaporated. We are still solidly DADT and she claims I should be content that she tolerates it as well as she does. But, recently during intimate moments she has been treating me in ways that seem like she may be playing a bit of role reversal. I am terrified to ask because if it's just my imagination, it would just cause discomfort.
I want to respect the forum so please don't share intimate details here (PM me if there is something relevant or if you want to speak privately).
This is a direction in which I'd love our relationship to go, but it seems full of potential land mines. Has anyone worked through this with their SO?