So you are married and your spouse knows, perhaps tolerates, perhaps more, but isn't comfortable dressing with you, going out and so forth. Is it possible to meet other dressers?
I was reading about the Southern Comfort Conference and thinking about how awesome that would be, but even if the dates worked out for me there's just no way I could do it. I would really enjoying meeting up with a another CD, or small group to just hang out, go shopping, whatever, but I don't think that it would work out. I'm not that good at lying and I don't really want to, but I'm certain my wife would freak out, she'd think it was a sexual driven fantasy and she couldn't stand me going out with someone else. In regards to the conference, there's no way she would be OK with me going to the beach somewhere without her, and she'd flip at the chance to go with me, except for the small fact that she doesn't want to see me dressed.
Ring a bell for anyone?