didnt want to hijack another thread,
for me this has been quite the journey....when i first arrived i identified as a CDer, in my youth i suppose i could have been the much maligned "fetish" dresser please forgive me for enjoying myself participating in a gross sex act but father guido sarduchi called it a cheap sin
been through gender fluid , transgender, non-binary, after some self discovery after my moms death i may have been intersex, not so sure how to pursue that or if its worth it nowadays.
so i just go with trans these days....i go to support functions mostly to help others but i do love sharing myself with those that me questions.
meeting other trans folks never ceases to amaze....as varied as a box of chocolates. differing perspectives.
helping just one person can be so gratifying....some poeple come to me with preconceived perspectives of who I(we) are and love to dismantle them.
so i came here a rookie, deep in the closet.
im still learning.....i have met some wonderful people and some real buttheads, met some nice folks from the forum in person, through e-mail and texts.
im getting out and doing things id never thought i would have accomplished so ive found more than i was looking for and it certainly has helped my esteem....+++
care to share your thoughts....