My wife is accepting of Kylie. She buys me things, helps me with makeup, and has even suggested starting hrt. Which I have not started but would love to, just haven’t taken that step yet. However when we get in disagreements sometimes she holds it against me. Says things like “I’m just holding you back from being who you want to be so you take out your frustrations out on me.” And other things she knows is a jab at Kylie. I get that when someone is mad they don’t always say things they mean but is this how she truly feels? Does she really not support me? When she is mad does her true feelings come out? I couldn’t ask for her to be more accepting than what she is but sometimes I wonder if she is really accepting. Sometimes things seem they would be easier if she was not accepting so I would know boundaries. Any advice would be appreciated.