Having been a part of this forum for some time, I have read and reviewed many posts on here. One common theme that I have noticed is while some on here are in a DADT type relationship, or in some cases, no input from the wife or SO, others are in a more open, if not completely accepting type of relationship, with others somewhat in between. So I want to pose this question. What type of a relationship are you currently in, and If you had the choice or the deciding vote, what type of relationship would you like to have with your wife or SO in regards to your dressing and why? How much of that would be impacted by your personal reasons for dressing and how much of that would be impacted by your wife or SO?