Sometimes when I visit this site I scroll to the bottom to see how many people are on the site. It drives me crazy when it is almost all guests.
Of course all are welcome - not that it's up to me LOL. I wish more guests would become members - then you can join the conversation. Ask questions - get feedback - give your opinion.
I am not unsympathetic - I get it. Some people have not told anyone. They don't want their secret to get out. I really do understand. I was there. But be realistic, unless someone (spouse) is scrutinizing your computer very deeply no one will find out. And if they did by some fluke it might be a good thing.
But if you are a regular visitor then it's pretty reasonable to assume that gender is an issue for you. Take the first step - even just a tiny one. Be a member - talk about it.
This is not the only place, people or thing that helped me but it was certainly a part. And I actually made some real life friends from this site.
I hope next time it is 2 members 26 guests instead of 1 and 27.
Peace
Kim