A few very basic questions.
How many NEVER went through a sexual phase? As in - clothing items and/or shoes served a singular purpose? A means to an end, and once "done", the clothes came off? It seems that many here at least started that way. Or arrived there at some point likely in your teens.
Did you feel guilty about it? Possibly ashamed? Is it at least POSSIBLE that any guilt or shame compelled you to move on to a fuller presentation? Or joining or participating here or any other Forum prodded you to put in way more effort in your CD presentation?
Did more effort equate to less guilt?
Some recent posts seem to indicate the opposite effect for at least a few.