Your original statement, would you become TS was wrong, but you later corrected it.
To me, in simplistic terms, a CD wants to change how society interacts with them, as a female and not as a male. A TS wants to interact with the world as a female and have them interact that way back.
But if I could magically pass, would I now live 24/7? No, because I prefer to choose how society interacts with me - as a male and if I chose, as a female.
If society suddenly no longer treated the gender presentations differently, which would put the dating scene in a whirlwind, then that is different.
IMHO,
Hugs, Ellen