so we had a recent thread about friends and family finding out about our true "selves" after we pass, i always suggest a letter in our stash as a proper way to honor our spouses at the very least.
now some stated they had laid out plans.
others did not care as they would take the secret to the grave.
and some didnt care "hey were dead" it wont matter,
my friend knows what to do when i die. ect....
BUT what if you die while dressed, house all to yourself so dig out the stash for a little "you" time the big HA happens and wife, son, daughter, whoever comes home and your laid out on the floor with your tongue hangin out. The neighbor calls police as they havnt seen or heard from you in a while and the house is emitting a pungent scent and its not your perfume.
some of us venture out into the wilds and are not out yet or may never be, BAMM a dump truck driver has the heart attack and plasters your vehicle into a oak tree,
sorry about the morbidity and horrific scenes but you cant back peddle and your in your favorite finery
wouldnt it be easier to leave a more favorable legacy by not taking things for granted.
it just kinda bothered me reading some replies how some just figured things they had planned would do the trick....i dont think you can cover all the bases by yourself....you may be dead but your loved ones are left to wonder WTF....