Funmetoo2004, I feel the same way. I am tired and weary from spending money on dating sites, and nothing whatsoever happens,and you are so right. It is way too much energy wasted trying to date, , even for non crossdresser, and ad CD to it, well, at 64, I am sad that i never had a mate, but love the cats in my life. They do not have the OVERLY HIGH EXPECTATIONS most GGs have, and accept me as i am, for who i am. i am just tired.