Listen up girl? Really?!?!
Sorry to break it to you but men are the gender with more wiring issues than women. The rare woman who "CDs" is much more likely than not to be doing so based on gender identification. The man who CDs much more likely than not is doing it based on something tactile, visual and/or sexual, or at least began doing so from that perspective. Women simply don't approach clothing from that same POV.
I know not of women who wear men's clothing for any of the reasons you cite except perhaps team jerseys but regardless, it is quite a stretch. WOMEN DO NOT CD IN ANY WAY REMOTELY CLOSE TO WHAT A MAN SUCH AS YOU DOES. As has been said, they have blazed their trail already. If you want to fly that flag, by all means go for it but please don't complain about this being a form of inequality.
As for any of us looking better than her, please drop that male bravado and competitive streak at the door. Women do enough of that amongst themselves. Most men trying to compete lack a key element, grace.