Serious Questions
Is it Transgender or Transgendered ?
If it's Transgendered is the d silent ?
Is Crossdress or Cross Dress ?
Is Transgender the Umbrella term to include Crossdressers ?
Is there a written rule that you have to be either CD or Trans and that you cannot refer to yourself as both ?
and finaly
When the gathering is semi formal are Pants Suit optional or a definite No No ?
I spent some time this weekend with a group that included a bunch who argued the whole night over terms and definitions. At one point I was tempted to toss them "Ru Pauls GLBT Dictionary and How not to be a Horse's Arse 8th Edition" at them, but I seriously doubt any of them could read.