My divorce had nothing to with my dressing. It did have to do with decreasing intimacy.

The bigger my ex became, the less I wanted sex with her. Which increasingly put the burden to initiate sex on her! After awhile she decided to get it somewhere else.

But, as for "real men"? Of all the crazy, embarrassing, and hard to do things I've done in my 75 years? NOTHING took as much guts as going out dressed as a female that first time!