I too have thought of this fantasy but quickly realize I can never feel all the feelings of a woman because I an neither physically or mentally totally wired as a woman. With out that, then I can NEVER totally feel all a woman feels. So the fantasy stays a fantasy.
Leslie Mary Shy
Remember this:
You do not have to be a man to love a woman, or be a woman to love women's clothes on her or yourself.
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Hi Jenn,
I had the same urges and desires. And I acted upon them. It was awesome. I have never regretted it. I felt sooooo feminine. Just get to know the guy a little bit beforehand and you will love it. The only problem is that once you experience it you will want to do it again and again. I know. I have had three encounters with guys. Makes me want to do it again.
In recent years this began to be a strong urge for me as well. There was a huge interest on craigslist from straight men for crossdressers. A couple ads I placed got over 200 responses. I was only offering oral. Doubleist is not as highly frequented but still has a large number of straight men looking for crossdressers. A lot of guys looking for something girls won't give them. I have to talk to someone for a while and do some vetting, but I'll meet someone every few months. Kind of a high having a lot of men pursuing Mirima.
I miss Craigslist. I was extremely careful but was able to find several men
I am not attracted to men at all in my normal everyday life
I think a lot of us end up having those thoughts. Thankfully, I have a wonderfully kinky and very supportive wife. We've been able to fulfill a good number of fantasies in the last few years (before we get any older) and I am hopelessly in love with her and always will be. That said, she has discovered her bi side and perhaps that explains why she has always been so understanding with my dressing, and downright supportive - yes, I consider myself very fortunate.
She has had a couple of gal pals in the last six years or so, and we introduced a third-wheel guy into the relationship several years ago that did allow me to fulfill some of my fantasies too, but hers were always paramount. I wouldn't call us "swingers" - we don't just get out there and openly engage in that stuff, but, we have allowed other people into the bedroom after a long and careful process of dinners, outings, and befriending them. Both my wife and I have the "damsel in distress" fantasy firmly stuck in our heads, and I got to share that experience with her a few times with that one fellow. It was really quite amazing. I don't think myself gay at all, I LOVE everything about women, but there is something terribly exciting about being submissive to a dominant fellow when dressed (and semi-dressed) and I certainly hope to have those experiences again.
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