Let's be clear about terms here, Bea. Then, maybe we can move on?
I consider wearing nothing but panties every day, a fetish, u r not a CD. But, as Daisy says, if u consider yourself a magician or a CD? Poof! U r one in your mind!
There is a fine line between fetish dressers and CD's. U may be one, or the other, or both to yourself. But, something else to others.
A closet dresser is one who dresses in secret. If a tree falls in the forest and no one hears it, does it make a sound? If no one else ever sees u dressed, r u really a CD? If u think so, yes. Altho no one else may believe that.