8 years ago I came out to my second wife after we’d had two kids together 5 from our 2 previous marriages. Yes I married her and never told her I was a cross dresser (I have been since I was 9). I never gave her the chance to choose and truth be told it’s probably what ruined my first marriage. In addition to being a cross dresser/transgender I’m also a coward.
Saturday we had a great day together alone as empty nesters. We even had great sex that evening for the first time in months. Yesterday afternoon we had too many cocktails and it loosened our lips and my wife decided she wanted to talk about the unspeakable - Joanne. She knows it’s still part of me and I don’t deny it anymore. I love my wife more than anything but I also know I can’t deny this femme part of me. She cannot accept me with the femme part. She loves me but not with Joanne. I don’t know how we go on from here. I can’t go on with out my wife. Counseling is not an option.
[SIZE=1]- - - Updated - - -[/SIZE]
My heart is breaking. I don’t know what to do or say. Please help me. Please help us.