My wife is tolerant of my dressing around the house and I am dressed most evenings minus make-up.That has happened in the last 10-15 years.We're in our sixties and over time we got to where we are now and I'm content,happy and very lucky to be able to express this side of me but I know if she could make it go away she would. Sometimes I look at her sitting there watching TV or whatever and I'm is a skirt with pantyhose,heels earrings etc and I think back to when I was still the macho man she married.Sometimes I wish I could just be a 100% guy again for her like I used to be in our younger years when I had buried this side of me.I know that won't happen and deep down I wouldn't want to go back but I feel sorry for putting her through this.