In another sub-forum there was discussion of "Ladyboys" in Thailand, and the masculine personal pronoun was used. That seemed highly disrespectful to me, and reflective of prejudice toward a vulnerable segment of society. I was moved to learn how Kathoey (the correct term) actually see themselves. This is from a blog based in Thailand.
https://www.pattayaunlimited.com/ladyboy-kathoey-legal-gender-title-id/
In that same thread, the term "trap" was used. I've recently become familiar with that ugly term, but I thought we left it at the door when we came in here.
Not the PC police here; I'm just sayin'.
Lallie