Need some help understanding this one...

[Kiwi Primrose]

This goes back to the early days of the internet when sites called for men in panties and there were hundreds of photos of hairy ugly men wearing grotesque panties and bras and showing their so-called excitement. It was a turn-off then and it is a turn-off now.

[mbmeen12]

My personal opinion, it sounds to me they (exposing types) their getting fetish thing on. Is it tacky, is the question? What type of event? I agree with you and would say to myself, "save it for your room".

[Roxanne Lanyon]

Remember, we all need to look our age, and look like ladies! I keep my bits to myself!
Roxanne

[KatrinaK]

I honestly don’t think these people were exhibitionists... one of them was dressed very elegantly, minus her thigh adornments. I honestly think they’re clueless.

Question: a couple of you have said you can’t tuck. I’m curious as to why... I’ve heard that it’s challenging after a hernia operation, but short of that, why is it that you can’t tuck?

Also, some have said that you see all types at these events (as if this is acceptable behavior), but walking around an outdoor patio on the street in Long Beach with your testicles hanging out isn’t eccentric, it’s indecent exposure.

[Alice B]

There is no excuse for that. Very poor taste and judgement. Need to learn how to tuck

[kayegirl]

It's not something that I have ever seen, but would admit that it would be very disturbing. As for tucking, I do not believe that I have ever achieved a full tuck as described in other threads. This may be due to hernia surgery when I was just 21 years of age, can't be sure. However, I do manage to keep my bits under control and achieve a flat front, using a combination of shape wear and tights/panty hose.

[Shelly Preston]

Katrina it looks like they were never taught about decency growing up.

A friend once said to me on seeing something similar.

If they want to dress like a lady they should act like one.

[Bobbi46]

That person should have been arrested for indecent exposure

[CrossKimmy]

There is no understanding necessary. This is unacceptable behavior.

[Fran-K]

That person should have been arrested for indecent exposure

ditto

Fran

[Roxanne Lanyon]

Consider the world we live in. There are ALL kinds of people out there, and some are really strange!
Roxanne

[biancabellelover]

Without commenting on the thread (I’d just be adding to the “eww” comments, LOL), I’ve had hernia operations on both sides of my groin and they were repaired using different techniques. One side was just sewing up the tear; the other was to place a mesh over the tear.

I can still tuck. Both my boys go up. I’m not sure how far they are meant to go, but it seems the right distance.

Michelle

[Tracii G]

Why are you looking?
Maybe its their "thing".
I wouldn't judge or make a big deal out of it.
Just don't look at their junk and let it go.
Is it tacky and gross? Yes it is. Would I do it? No of course not.

[Lana Mae]

Katrina, can not tuck due to having a hernia! Told by doc if it is not bothering you leave it alone! It does not bother me so far! Hugs Lana Mae

[Brandi Christine]

Yes I a one of those 'girls' that likes to wear short skirts & dresses, but I would be soooo embarrassed, mortified, if they fell out and were visible...

[Bobbi46]

There's not much understanding needed for attitudes of people who think it is alright to openly display their junk, they are purely and simply exhibitionists out get some sort of perverted thrill from doing what they do and getting away with it, that is until somebody has the strength to call the police only then can one stop obscene behaviour like this.

[brina_cd]

Someone needs to tell them this:
https://youtu.be/qTltSoW5Gw8?t=51

[Cheryl T]

Wow, they must be wearing some very shorts skirts....LOL.

Sorry, but those things are not for public view in my book. I don't even like having them any more, let alone the thought that someone would see them.

[Tracy Irving]

Gross. Just gross.

There ought to be a law...

Most likely there already is.

[t-girlxsophie]

I dont tuck in the true sense,as in sticking the boys back up where god didn't intend them to be,but they are out of sight and out of mind though.But of course I don't have them dangling about,that's just rank bad form.How can we expect respect from everyone when we're running about showing our bits off

Sophie

[AllieSF]

Did you mention it to the offenders? If they are good people they would be very embarrassed and try to immediately correct the issue. Also, if you continue to see that type of sickening thing, why do you even go there?? Go to mainstream venues where you will be equally safe and see decently dressed people and can have fun with non-trans people.

[Ressie]

I agree with Allie^. They may not know that they're exposing themselves and it couldn't hurt to ask them if they know. It bothers me enough to see a crossdresser sitting unladylike so their crotch is showing. We have a saying - keep those knees together!

[Judy-Somthing]

Omg! Lol

[nikkiwindsor]

OMG...eeww!

[DaisyLawrence]

Anyone who thinks that this is anything other than intentional sexually motivated exhibitionism is dreaming. No-one 'accidentally' has their sack hanging out lower than a dress hem for heavens' sake. There are all sorts of weird (and to some, wonderful) people in the world and that applies equally to crossdressers and the like. I'd have said something if they were talking to me, something polite like "if you must flash your gonads like a moron then **** off and do it somewhere else". Be sure to smile at the same time.