Not “lesbian”, apparently, although it’s the term I prefer.
And “Transbian”, with all due respect to Sherry, just makes things more confusing.
So what is it?
Not “lesbian”, apparently, although it’s the term I prefer.
And “Transbian”, with all due respect to Sherry, just makes things more confusing.
So what is it?
Last edited by Patience; 10-22-2018 at 12:34 PM. Reason: Attempted to correct a tautology.
Heterosexual
Like I always say DRAG or DRAB I am the same person with the same thoughts, fears, and desires, only the clothing has changed.
Last edited by Robertacd; 10-23-2018 at 11:57 AM.
A label naming contest?
Heterosexual?
Damn Roberta, I just noticed, you beat me......
Look at the posting times. :-)
Last edited by Beverley Sims; 10-22-2018 at 10:50 AM.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I think that it depends on the day of the week.
HUMAN
MOHADD works also.
What is it?
In my case it's called autogynephilia (AGP) or to be more precise it's Masochistic Emasculation Fetish (MEF). That doesn't sound very sexy so I've used the terms "male lesbian" or "bi when dressed" metaphorically in an attempt to explain the unexplainable using terms that are meant to describe cis-sexual and cis-gender people. The same would go for "transbian." I understand them as metaphors not to be taken literally. But, if we all did that we wouldn't have as much to argue about. Where's the fun in that?
Since for the most part sex usually involves removing clothing, quite often to the state of total nudity, when considering sexuality does one have to consider the gender which one was portraying whilst dressed at the start of foreplay or the gender which so evidently manifests itself when all the clothes are removed.
Correct labelling is such an issue, here in the EU the contents of a package have to be clearly detailed in the ingredients, the constituent parts of the packaging only have to have their suitability for recycling clearly detailed. However packaged, the contents are still the same, although I usually find beer tastes better from a glass bottle than a metal can. I guess, that for some people, sex can taste/feel better depending on the initial packaging and yes the attractiveness of said packaging might be a factor, but it is the contents that really matter.
Rachel,
As a crossdresser my personality has several facets. Therefore, I suppose I can be forgiven for being facetious.
Asked and answered, right there in the OP. Heterosexual
A hetero crossdresser is still hetero.
A gay crossdresser is still gay.
A bi crossdreser is still bi.
But you can call yourself whatever you want. It's a free world
Agreed. Clothing choice is irrelevant to your sexuality.
Yeah, Hetero it is; trying to attach sexual orientation to a 'persona' is just a wee bit much.
I'm human. Sexuality, gender? Straight up, with a twist, just like my drinks.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Why is it some want to confuse themselves even more?
Its like they search for things to anguish over
Tracii, perhaps they are just bored with their crossdressing and want to make it more interesting
If they'd put all these lables on different restroom doors I wouldn't have a clue which one to use.
Ineke
I think some do it because they think it's cute or cool!
Like those that post about their "clitty"!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I think some just wanna ask a question.
Last edited by Patience; 10-22-2018 at 10:11 PM. Reason: Synchronized cycles?
When haters hate, I celebrate!
Back to your original question then what do you want to call it?
Come up with a name that fits and we will call it that.
Personally I don't worry about what to call what someone else does so no need for a label .
Patience,
[Great name, BTW].
My advice? When in your femme form, just go get yourself a man. Really.
I've never really bought into the entire "male lesbian" thing. I figured it was a thin veil to protect the remaining male ego of CDers. And yes, I know and believe there are a large number of straight, heterosexual crossdressers out there. Love you all. But I also think there's a part deep inside every crossdresser's heart, regardless of how they identify sexually, that longs to be in the arms of a man. We want to be pretty for a reason, honey.
There resides within me a Woman, and she is powerful.
She has been my Grace and Bearing on the stormiest seas.
I could no more deny Her than I would my own soul.
When haters hate, I celebrate!
A human being 'On The Road To Find Out'.
(Thanks Cat Stevens)
These threads are like buses,not one around for ages then 3 come at once.wonder if this will develop any better than the others
Sophie
We look to Scotland,for all our Ideas of Civilisation-Voltaire
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A woman who loves to wear beautiful clothes is like a flower.
A man who loves to emulate these women is a special flower-a roseFacebook:Sophie Johnson
Thank you, Sophie.
Maybe l'm biased, but I like to think that buses are not entirely useless.
Thank you all for your replies.
When haters hate, I celebrate!
Except that having three buses come at once means that two are useless
If you have the balls yourself; define it!
Stacy!
STOP, Well I just dance the way I feel
Stop breathing imagine none of this is real
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel "Ou Est Le Swimming Pool"
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