I kind of find a similar thing. Now I kind of have a routine, working from home means a skirt, once a week at work in skirt and heels, and once a month a girlz night out where I go full femme. So I find that when I have the house all to myself, where as I used to always dress more femme and now the urge isn't really there since I have so many outlets and a routine, so I typically just wear what I was wearing already.