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    There's that smile! CarlaWestin's Avatar
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    You really know you've been crossdressing for a long time when you.......

    -sprinkling foot powder in your pumps and stiletto leather boots.
    -ponder why there's still male underwear in your drawer.
    -shave your head so wigs fit and look better.
    -pass(ish) comfortably with a touch of shadow cover and a little lipstick.
    -realized long ago that acceptance isn't your issue.

    Got some more?
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    Being tucked feels the natural way to be even if in drab.
    Who dares wears Get in, get out without being noticed

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    Stop that, it's silly.... DIANEF's Avatar
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    When putting on female clothes seems as natural as putting on male ones.
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    when you don't realize your still wearing a bra with forms...…...,...……………….Debra

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    When you've worn out more wigs than you currently own? When you remember who Michael Salem was?

    How about when you miss certain cosmetics that haven't been made in 10 years?

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    ...when you're out shopping, and need to go to the rest room, and have to stop and look down to see which clothing you're wearing that day, to know which room to go in.
    Stephanie

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    when I feel I always have to walk along the Women's Section a a Department Store especially the Brassiere and Panties Section. Suddenly I have more Panties than Men's underwear.
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    ...when you have bra marks.
    ...when more people know you by your femme name than by your birth name.
    When haters hate, I celebrate!

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    When you look, feel and discuss lingerie with a sales assistant without flinching when you are in drab.....

    Having a bra fitting when asked under similar circumstances.

    Plus most of the situations that have already been described. :-)
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stephNE View Post
    ...when you're out shopping, and need to go to the rest room, and have to stop and look down to see which clothing you're wearing that day, to know which room to go in.
    Lol been there.

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    When buttoning up your male shirt and wonder why the buttons are on the wrong side.

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    When you start forgetting whether you put any panties on.!!!!
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    Awesome! There's some good ones there.
    When you notice a couple spending along time looking at your legs in the grocery store and it doesn't dawn on you till hours later that they were curious why your legs were hairless, tanned, and incredibly smooth and moisturized.

    Having normal and random discussions with females about your nails or eyebrows.

    And yes, as Beverly said, talks about lingerie with SAs. I was disappointed when our Macy's in Boise dropped the Heidi Klum line, and the SA lady was in total agreement with me. We both lamented that we didn't stock up on them!

    When you get calls from lady friends asking to have you pluck their eyebrows for them.

    Oh, and I love what you said about acceptance Carla, so very true.

    Cass

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    You really know you've been crossdressing for a long time when you.......

    ...stop caring about what underwear you are wearing to the doctors office.
    ...when you don't don't have any male underwear at all.
    ...when you have more dresses and skirts than your wife.
    ...when your wife borrows some of your clothes.
    ...when your wife need pantyhose and helps herself to what she needs.
    ...when you tell her about a good store to shop at, and where to purchase those hard to get sizes.

    ...and last, but not least, when you know more about fashion, and fashion sense than your wife. As in she seeks your opinion, because you are more in the know than she is.
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    Absolutely, when you wife starts borrowing clothes from you or at least your stockings or pantyhose. When you are shopping in Victoria Secrets with your wife and she picks items that she says would like cute or nice on you.

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    When you have a much more full social life,and lots more friends as a woman than you've ever amassed as a guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gillian Gigs View Post
    You really know you've been crossdressing for a long time when you.......

    ...stop caring about what underwear you are wearing to the doctors office.
    ...when you don't don't have any male underwear at all.
    ...when you have more dresses and skirts than your wife.
    ...when your wife borrows some of your clothes.
    ...when your wife need pantyhose and helps herself to what she needs.
    ...when you tell her about a good store to shop at, and where to purchase those hard to get sizes.

    ...and last, but not least, when you know more about fashion, and fashion sense than your wife. As in she seeks your opinion, because you are more in the know than she is.
    I guess it has been a while... I'm five for seven Gillian

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    When you know of over dozen people who not only went on to transition, but has also changed their initial crossdressing story/history to accommodate to their present state of mind

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    Quote Originally Posted by DIANEF View Post
    When putting on female clothes seems as natural as putting on male ones.
    ^^This^^

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    When your ONLY consideration when going out "dressed" is whether to tuck or not.

    No, not the family jewels. I'm talking about whatever shirt I am wearing..

    But then, if I DO decide to tuck, belt (which belt?) or no belt.

    Decisions, decisions.

    It ain't easy being a MIAD/MOHADD.

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    When you are shopping and you already know your measurements and sizes from memory for different stores and brands

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    When you can tell what outfits “work” and what ones don’t. When you know where everything is in the women’s section but the men’s section is like another planet altogether.
    If you only knew the power of the pink fog! ~Joss

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    When I just HAVE TO get out of these damn boy clothes and into a nice comfortable skirt.

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    When your in Costco and your wife is grabbing the size "D" pantyhose and you scream across from the men's section "No I wear size "C".

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    When your walking to any store shopping and go right to ladies wear and shop at ease and you know your size.

    when you notice stretch marks when you look in the mirror.
    Wanting something is a fantasy which on a long time period clouds your mind and makes you think you need it.

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