Dressing restored my sexuality!
I doubt many would say, or admit this. Because my case is so unusual!
I began experimentally casually with dressing out of the blue at 50. Then, it got serious after I separated from my ex. However, sex wasn't involved. In fact, for the next 2 years I had no interest in women or sex!
Then, for whatever reason, the images in my mirror and photos began to turn me on!
That was 25 years ago and Sherry still turns me on!
Anyone else have your sex drive re-stimulated by your fem persona?
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Sex drive has always been stimulated by my persona.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Not my female self but some days I'm not too bad I guess.
You know Sherry it might be different if I was straight but interesting topic.
A few months ago my girlfriend started making me wear her wigs and panties now and then as part of our bedroom roleplay. She even picked up sexy undies for me now and then when she was out shopping. She took pictures whenever we did this but I was always too embarrassed to look. Well a couple weeks ago she was looking through some of her recent pics of me and was really excited by how my butt looked in them. She showed me and I was surprised... I actually did look kind of womanly in the pics and I was actually turned on.
We ended up going whole-hog last week and bought me some dresses, shoes, accessories. Mani/pedi, body shave, etc. And when we did our very first top-to-bottom dress-up last weekend I was kind of floored. I found myself really cute, and I wanted to share my cuteness with the world.
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It sure has its advantages doc. If I don't have anything girly on for "playtime", the wifey will ask "why are you not properly dressed?"
Dressing has done wonders for me! I am always fantasizing about possibilities, while dressed. Sometimes I simply dream about being "his" wife!
Roxanne Lanyon
"Where does it go from here?"
As Sweet As I Can Ever Be
This Forum like most, has advantages and disadvantages.
One of the big advantages, (IMO) are the FACTS it displays everywhere you look. For those that ARE looking. The folks who participate with their eyes open wide. How many people are looking at a thread/possibly not signed in. Usually at least 10/1 if not higher. Which type of threads get the most views and responses. Including the P&V Gallery which of course only members can view/participate in. This is simply facts and not based on what people actually type.
Like the "majority" of the INFO here supports. I started my dressing (at around 11 or 12ish) because "it" could get me to the pearly gates. Did not need a magazine. I certainly was not restoring...
Today, both men AND women have many more "aids" available for trips to O land, making the opposite sex/another Human less needed.
This IS going on today as part of the problem in the Dating world.
HOWEVER, and Science is clear on this, both men and women CAN become addicted to exclusive use of ONLY a toy or ONLY porn. Or a "costume". (?)
Buyer beware.
Variety is the spice of life?
Very true.
A simpler answer to your question might be whether CDers have more or bigger mirrors in their house than non CDers?
One thing is for sure. With all these (apparent?) ONLINE places that sell high heels in 13,14...?
I don't think I have EVER met a GG who would need anything larger than a 12.
These shoes ARE being sold to someone. I cannot imagine buying shoes or anything else ONLINE w/o trying them on, but maybe I am simply lucky enough to be able to usually buy 10-11 heels which fit fine.
Crossdressing expanded my sexuality- I am kind of shocked- I used to have to manage bulging like a teen does, but now I very rarely have full arousal and yet I feel better and more well rounded- with generalized physiological arousal, much more feeling in my breasts, and o and e no longer requiring tumescence. It is strange but I feel it is a much fuller sexual experience.
We are all beautiful...!
Sherry,
I'm not sure if it's restored my sexuality, but I know the first time I looked at myself in the full length mirror (from the neck down), dressed in a fluffy, pale pink sweater with my 36DD forms, a medium length black skirt and high heels, it was definitely a sexual turn on.
Sounds like a textbook case of autogynephilia, OP.
I don't have it, but it seems a lot of CDs to.
I don’t know about restoring my sexuality, more so renewed my interest in sex again.
In my case, I believe you're correct, Miss V! But, most here lose the "urge" after seeing themselves and dressing over the years.
Even my case has changed over time. I go out to A LOT of T events the last few years and sex never enters my mind the entire time I'm getting ready or while I'm out with others!
I have no idea why!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Sherry asked, "Anyone else have your sex drive re-stimulated by your fem persona?" At one time it was always stimulated when I became femme. Now, its possible in the brain only but not in the old genitals.
DRS, I have the same thrills from seeing leggy Alice in the mirrors, videos i make of Alice, and thousands of photos of Alice. I find it hard to want to date now. So turned on by Alice. However, i just don't have much libido anymore. I feel kind of weird about it though. It seems like the ultimate narcissism , and self centeredness, but a t least i am not out doing it with women. Miss V, I agree, and i , like DRC have autogynephilia .
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Although AGP is a major part of my sexuality, dressing is not an essential part of my AGP. CDing has always been an adjunct to AGP for me, not the other way around. It's fun and challenging some times but I could live without it. But I could no more stop being AGP than one could stop being gay. My sex drive improved when I realized that I'm AGP, there was nothing wrong with that and there wasn't anything I could do about it anyway. I just needed to stop trying to suppress it.
I looked up sexuality and autogynephilia, it seems sexuality it is a broad term, which has varied over time and lacks a precise definition. where as autogynephilia is spot on for me. When I slipped on panties - autogynephilia, then graduated to other articles like attaching nylons to garter - autogynephilia, lately it's been lipstick - autogynephilia. In fact, I find myself looking at men and woman's lips on tv and think how those lips would look in ruby red.
i was raised as a girl but my mum never really told me what... so i geuss im BI?
Not re-stimulated. It's always been there. But I'd say that when I got to the stage of wearing more clothes, adding a wig and looking in mirrors I got even more excited.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
Honey, you're clothes don't determine who turns u on, your brain does!Originally Posted by honey1036
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I agree with Ressie. Not re, but stimulated in some cases. I love to put on sexy outfits and shoot selfies. I'm blessed to have some lovely legs that look amazing in hosiery and high heels!
Veronica
Love who you are! You are uniquely you!!
I'm 9 months into HRT and my libido has vanished and, frankly, I like it. I have "that peaceful and easy feeling"!
Crossdressing, in a sense ruined my male life and took me for wrong road of bisexuality but being in transition I found it was a gender sex confusion. I haven't heard this from someone else. Now I'm straight with mi wife and dressing doesn't stimulate my sexuality but fulfill my real person.
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