Today it's bin day.My neighbours are away for a couple of days and asked me to put out their bins for them which I did last night as the refuse collectors sometimes come at the crack of dawn.
Well today it was more like 09:00 and I heard them collecting the glass recycling. This made me realise I hadn't put my neighbours glass bin out so quickly nipped out to catch the collection.
So walking towards me down the road was an operative pulling a wheelie bin into which they empty each house's glass. All over hi-vis and as I handed over the glass bin I said "Thanks mate".
It was then I saw the person give a slight smile and I looked more closely. The operative wasn't a man. Stocky, short hair yes, male no.
Now I can't say if this was a F2M Trans or a "butch" female but the point is we all see what we expect to see and act accordingly.
So here's what we have. Me seeing what I expected to see and I suspect someone who deliberately presents an image, an image that fooled me up until the point of close inspection.
She/he didn't fully pass but did a really good job of blending into the environment and there's a lesson there for all of us.