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    Sitting at home no where to go

    I am sitting at home dressed and no where to go. Hardest part I would like to post a picture but don’t want it all over the internet. Have a iPhone but I don’t trust it.I look good today. Well that’s the way I see myself. Wish I knew where to go to places like some of you ladies have talked about. Want to injoy my time dressed because it is the most comfortable for me. I feel the happiest. I am in a very stressful work inviorment and this is my happy place. I show myself as shybrenda this site is really making me understand that I am very comfortable just being Brenda.

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    Go to the mall, or the grocery store, or a local park... anywhere you’d go in guy mode you can go dressed! Just get out there and do it!

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    Heya...

    I have an iPhone and I take my pictures with it all the time... You just need to ensure you turn off automatic uploads to icloud and it'll stay purely on your device. iPhones are the most secure smartphone on the market.

    I've yet to leave the confines of my house too. But it's going to happen, and happen very very soon. Have you considered going to events for dressers etc etc?

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    Our administrators work hard to keep any post of anyone to within the forum. If possible use a digital camera, move it to your computer, resize it to the 500 dot longest side standard, then post it into a post. If you are in doubt, crop of your head. There are guidelines at the start that tell you how to do it.
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    My iPhone is a company phone don’t trust it. If I turn off sharing and the cloud you think that is safe? I have hundreds of pictures on an old iPhone that is no longer in service. Would like to get them off.

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    I wouldn’t suggest using a company phone for anything personal. You never know what kind of tracking they’re using.

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    I use my iPhone all the time for pictures. I use a photo vault to keep my pics private. I won’t leave my house dressed as there are retirees in my area. But I have an awesome friend that lets me change at her house.
    Get out there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Micki_Finn View Post
    I wouldn’t suggest using a company phone for anything personal. You never know what kind of tracking they’re using.
    Let me second what Micki said. DON'T USE COMPANY PHONE FOR PERSONAL USE. Very good chance, it is a tracking device. Think how they might ensure recovering their stolen or lost property?

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    Best to not take pics on a company phone.
    Go buy a small used digital camera and down load to your PC if you have one.

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    Do they have a Micro SID chip? or can you hook it to your computer with a cable? eve many of the older flip phones have a Micro SID chip inside. I had one that required you to take the back off and remove the battery to get to the Micro SID Chip that was under the SIM chip.
    Last edited by Leslie Mary S; 11-12-2018 at 04:33 PM.
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    Thanks about the company phone that was my thought. I have great pictures on that old iPhone hope I can get t off and then I will post. It has been most injoyable today. Thank you all.

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    Just a thought on you getting out of the house. Go for a ride. Go through a drive thru and order some fries. It will start you on your way to going to a Mall.

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    My first time out dressed was through a drive thru at night. That is a good way to get your heels wet.

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    I would not use a phone to take pictures of myself as a female and especially not one owned by my employer. All my photos are taken with a digital camera (not a phone, a camera) and are stored on a USB drive not kept plugged into my computer.


    Avatar photos on this site can be viewed by other people. However, it would be pretty unusual for someone to be looking for them. And hopefully, made up with a wig and female clothes, you won't be recognized.
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    I to tend to Not use my phone to take Leslie photos.
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    Last edited by Leslie Mary S; 11-13-2018 at 05:25 AM.
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    https://www.howtogeek.com/345540/how...phone-to-a-pc/

    The USB charging cable can be used to transfer photos to a computer.
    Last edited by Maid_Marion; 11-12-2018 at 05:57 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Leslie Mary S View Post
    Our administrators work hard to keep any post of anyone to within the forum. If possible use a digital camera, move it to your computer, resize it to the 500 dot longest side standard, then post it into a post. If you are in doubt, crop of your head. There are guidelines at the start that tell you how to do it.
    Leslie, I don't want to disappoint you but ShyBrenda fears are f very well foundaded. If you gals want to know how safe is this place write your name here and Google it.
    This is not a thread for pics and I don't know if the admin will erase my post or pic but I attached is a pic screenshit with the results of a search of my name here that takes you to a one of the threads...I had to scroll down a bit and bingo!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maid_Marion View Post
    https://www.howtogeek.com/345540/how...phone-to-a-pc/

    The USB charging cable can be used to transfer photos to a computer.
    That's true if it's the cable that came with the phone. Some cheap, aftermarket cables only have the power pins connected, and not the data pins.

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    Leslie--You have the whole world to travel, but start with baby steps. Take a drive; take a walk with nobody around; expand the walk to an evening stroll at the beach or window shopping. At night, all the detail about you is lost unless you are well illuminated. As you feel more comfortable with the little excursions, think bigger. The holidays are approaching. Malls are fantastic then. They are loaded with people and nobody has the slightest interest in you! They are busy doing their own thing, whatever it might be. Personally, I have found trips to the mall much more comfortable when loaded with people than when devoid of people. During the holidays is also when I got up the nerve to stand in line at a checkout counter to buy a skirt for myself while dressed. The sales assistant was so busy she had no time to be interested in me, only the transaction. Same with grocery store checkout lines.

    Today, I intended to go to a lecture about women in the military. I chickened out. Twice now this has happened because the venue (which I scouted en femme in advance) was small and had limited access. Some of you would have felt it normal to attend these events, but I don't yet have the confidence. It will come, but progress is slow because I have such few opportunities to expand my horizons. Good luck to you.

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    You can get a basic digital camera really cheap nowadays if you don't want to use your phone, which will come with all the software and hardware you need. As for going out it has been suggested that a drive, a short walk, trip to the shopping mall ect. are good ways of getting out, this is true.
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    I use a camera, not my phone for photos. Here's why:

    Security. Pics r safe on a card!
    Ease of transfer. Stick the card in any computer and there u go!
    Storage. No chance of accidental erasure on a card. Plus, they last a long time!
    I HATE selfies! The same smiling face a billion times! But, it's so easy to put my camera down anywhere. Turn on the timer and take full body pics with background in them!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Everyone is telling you how to post pics.

    But places to go. Anywhere a door is open and you can get in. A show , bar, store, casino, the mall a park. Go have something to eat by yourself. Find some friends here near you to go out with. No reason to stay home dressed alone.
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    Brenda the hardest step you will ever take will be that very first step in heels out the door,after that it's all a cake walk.

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    Brenda,

    You have to take small steps until you get used to being your new self, there will be periods of loneliness. despair and guilt all in the mix.

    Moments of euphoria along with annoyance at not being able to do something when friends come around.

    Always value your friends and you eventually find an outlet on this forum to interact with others.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    Brenda,

    Firstly, do not use company property for personal use. Taking pics of yourself dressed could give an unscrupulous employer the excuse to fire you as your actions brought the company into disrepute.

    As for getting out I find myself relating this many times over. I'd decided I was going out shopping. Dressed I sat in my car nervous as hell parked up outside the shops. Perhaps the hardest point is the moment you actually pull the door handle and move a foot outside. Stood up, got my coat and bag off the back seat, coat on, hair straightened, bag on shoulder and head off into closest store. 15 minutes later I was in my 3rd store, nerves calming down and had actually stood in line and bought something.

    Spent the remainer of the day shopping and the rest is history as they say.

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