We just have some mutually agreed boundaries.

Rachel is not allowed in the marital bed, but as I have slept naked for as long as I can remember it does not really affect me, so female nightwear is only worn for relaxing in before bedtime.

No heels before breakfast due to the noise on the stone floors.

When we go out as girlfriends, my wife expects me to wear clothes to blend, she is and always has been self-conscious about the public in general.

She is not attracted to Rachel, so I have to curb my dressing at times, if you know what I mean, .

Generally, she has become more accepting to the extent that she even bought my latest shoes and wig after selecting them together.